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VGians, time to blog!

Anyways, flu/cough/runny-nose not clearing up yet - culprit no other than me, been stubborning drinking my coffee and not really flushing water. Today, it came to a point that I felt I am coughing my guts out so there, no more stubbornness - I am gonna get this out of my system and back to my good old self by 01Feb10 (mind-healing...ommmm).

This VRA is not really working out. I am gonna adopt my past 90-days challenge outside in approach and track it like a 90days project. So who's in?!?!

Hardly hear from you on the blog, ping me if you're keen!

Flu bug go away

I feel sick. It's been a long while since I felt so sick. It's a combination of physical, mental and emotional ache when the flu gets to me. Why? Cos physically I feel weak and feeling weak, I feel that I am not able to operate optimally and when that happens, things going through me just get compromised. Oh how oh how can I reverse the process? I can't go through a sentence without being interrupted by my cough. And now with the runny nose, I am wrapping "wantons" ever so often!

Bug flu bug, fly fly away.

It's funny how little thought one has for health till one fall sick. Plans are running through my mind to get myself healthy when I get healthy! How crazy is that? Yet, am doing nothing cept to wallow in this self pity. haha. ok, time to stop ranting. I am going back to my planning for the week. VRA seemed to be dwindling among the VGians. We got to make it work! I guess I have to enforce it on myself to enforce on others... it starts from me.

Drink your water!!!
Exercise!!
Sleep.

Bug flu bug, fly fly away.

2010 Week 1

Yesterday missed the submission dateline and was late for meeting today (though i wanted to be punctual for meetings in 2010).
I came back for my jog yst nite, online abit and literally knocked off.

Hmm... Its only the first week of the year and I feel I am overwhelmed by the stuffs on hand.

This is a VERY different pace compared to 2009.

I realised I have been working close to 12hrs daily.
I leave Advo looking at the clock and tell myself that I will be back in less than 12hrs.

Yes, I know this is the package that comes with 10mil.

Maybe alot of you or even successful people have shared that this is the price to pay to success.

However, I would very much want to be more effective, efficient and stream line my work.

Nowadays when I look at Waisun, I really envy him. He has a team to work with.
Jean doing the admin, Jiahe doing part of the science coaching and XY doing the math coaching.
He seems to be quite eng or rather have the luxury to focus on business development.
On the other hand. I see myself doing almost everything myself at GH for my biz unit.
I am resolute to recruit my coaches (Pey! I really need your help here FAST!).
I must learn to delegate and leverage.
I also realised that I am always shortchanging myself.
In the sense that if there are students who wish to attend lesson on my off days, I usually compromise to come back for them.
Even on my off day, I allow myself to come back to attend meetings etc.
Seriously, unless it is very important for me to be back, I think I will start to say NO.
Coz if I keep giving in to myself, there will be no end.
I feel it is unhealthy.
One of the items on my wishlist is to be happy by feeling the balance between work and personal life/leisure.

Yes yes, maybe at this point of time you may be bombarding me (esp. WAISUN!) why do I use the word WORK or tik of it as WORK.
However, I am sorry I still fail to see it your way.
I stand by my Work hard & play hard!

This will be a better week.

Wishlist 2010

Had been doing wishlist with my kids. This had been an amazing exercise for me and the kids. I realized that the kids, like many people that I met, do not know what they really want, even if they are given the power to have anything they want. Holding the "magical paper" in their hand, writing their wishes down is probably an exercise they had never done before. Suddenly, when the power is given to them to dream, to demand what they want from life, they were lost. Most were skeptical. Very few indulged in the moment of just wishing away. It deemed clearer to me, how important it is for me as a coach, to ignite the desire in them, to discover with them their capacity to dream and to enhance their ability to realise their dreams. For a start, I got to show them that it's doable, it's possible, it's EASY! I shared my dreamboard with a few, openly commiting my goals to them and have them track me.

It would be awesome to dream together and realise dreams together.

PS: Tomorrow's the Os results. I have absolute faith that the hard work and fun we put in in 2009, will have a fruitful results :)

my 1st post of the year!!

Dear Vgians!!

its my 1st post of the year & i think we really need to put ourselves on track, such as with the regular blogging & posting of goals by 2359 of every sunday.

anyway, 2010 is one of the only years in which i didnt write any new year resolutions.
as lynn put it in the advoblog, once u have ur dreamboard, u dont actually need resolutions as i believe our ultimate dreams are much much much bigger than any yearly resolution, even though every month & year we are doing something which contributes to those bigger dreams.

as psychologist Gestalt says, "the whole is more than the sum of its parts".

2010 is also an exciting year for me because i am going to finally GRADUATE,
& also we are going to embark on an exciting VRA,
& i am going to do things i have never done before in my life.

during tdy's & ystdy's meeting,
somehow i keep having the feeling that we can do whatever we are asked to do or challenged to do,
we can do whatever that needs to be done to achieve our ultimate goals,
however we always stop/pause/hesitate/avoid having to go through new experiences or step out of our comfort zone because of self-doubt.

i dont even think fear or uncertainty is the issue.

without self-doubt, there will not be fear & uncertainty.

thus my 2010 goal is to RECOGNIZE my own self doubt,
especially whenever it is setting in,
which means i have to monitor my thoughts/feelings closely,
& i hope VGIANS will HELP me overcome it whenever i recognize a self-doubt.

i gratefully thank all of u VGIANS in advance, for being part of my dreambuilding process of 2010 :)

cheers to everyone!!! :D

Welcome 2010!!!

Yeah~ Its the first week of the year.
Chionging time!!!

ALL of us have slacked for the past week.
No one updated last sunday. haha~
Okie, give ourselves a little treat before we embarked on the adventure of 2010.

Hmm.. It is really a chaotic year in 2009 and I really work hard & play hard.

As for this year.. lotsa new responsibilities and GREAT targets to hit.
However, with the power of everyone we will achieve!

Some energy is required to kick start the year.
I was dreading the coming of monday on sunday.
However, as monday unfolds and momentum kicks in, the engine started rolling.
I feel good.

One of my friends commented that I am absurdly positive.
Guess what I told him? I have never been happier in my life before.
So I am on the right path!
Life is beautiful! Does all of u still remb ur tagline for 2010? *grin*

I am looking forward to the Dec Taiwan trip w u pple.

11 mths to achieve our targets! Exciting exciting!!!

I will update my goals for the month and the week tonight. =)